Etiquette

How to get the most out of our time together

Please read through this page, as it explains what’s expected throughout the process of coming together. While certain things are common sense,
every provider has a different procedure and this is mine.

  • Please reach out to me in advance, as I receive many requests and I would love to accommodate yours as much as possible. For most sessions, I recommend reaching out to me a week or so before the time you’d like an experience with me.

    I ask for this time, both because I have a busy schedule and because I genuinely care about providing you with the best experience possible, which means I prepare for our time together and try to understand your intentions before we come together.

    When booking, please include as much information as possible when reaching out to me (excluding any lewd or explicit requests).

    This includes your name, the length of the session you’d like, the information requested for screening purposes, and a little about your intentions for our time together. The requests that get my attention are the ones that hold a level of depth, respect, and intentionality.

  • First-time clients are always screened — no exceptions. I thank you in advance for your cooperation and transparency. Nothing will be shared. I’m professional and highly value discretion.

    There are several things that I require:

    1) a real phone number for screening and safety purposes only. I will not contact you through the phone number you list unless you state otherwise.

    2) an email I can contact and use to follow up with you.

    When you’re completing the booking form, I also ask you to choose and provide at least one way to verify your identity. Providing more than one way to verify your identity helps move the process along much faster.

    The options for required verification include:

    1. Provider referrals (please list in notes below)

    2. Trusted screening site or review service, like P411 or PrivateDelights (please add a link or provide more info in the notes in that same booking form)

    3. ID, and something that backs it up like LinkedIn, Work ID, website, etc (you can submit the documents after I reach out to you)

  • Please take a fresh and thorough shower before you arrive. After you arrive, I’ll invite you to freshen up. If your drive was longer, please take a quick body rinse. Towels, soap, and mouthwash are provided.

  • RELAX

    Know that I do my best to create a safe and relaxed space, where we can truly tune into each other and enjoy each other’s company. I also understand that nerves can be a thing when first meeting someone, and it can take time to open up.

    Be gentle with yourself, and know that your feelings are completely normal. I’m here to guide you into a more serene, sensual, and natural moment.

    PRESENCE

    Sexual arousal is an altered state of consciousness, just like the states one can enter during breathwork, meditation, or inebriation. This altered state is intoxicating, transformational, and beautiful to behold and enter.

    But just like with breathwork, meditation, or a really great conversation, it takes presence to enter, engage, and enjoy. Please do your best to stay present throughout our experience.

    BOUNDARIES

    Please respect my boundaries. I’m a very adventurous person, but I do have a few. I will give us both the opportunity to share both our desires and boundaries before we commence.

    If something doesn’t feel right to me in session, I’ll let you know, and please do the same for me. Every body’s different, so no judgment.

    If I have to tell you more than once, I will end the session immediately with no refund.

  • A $50 deposit through venmo or cashapp is required to secure your time slot. I sincerely try to accommodate last-minute changes. If we are unable to find a suitable time, you will lose your deposit and be expected to pay for part of the session. (See “cancellation” for more details.)

    Please provide the rest of the donation in cash, in an envelope. Before you freshen up, please put the envelope on a counter, shelf, or table in an easily visible place for me.

  • Please honor my time just as I honor yours. I am a professional and it highly impacts my life when you cancel.

    While I understand that changes can unexpectedly arise and can often accommodate, if we’re unable to set another date a rebooking / cancellation fee will be incurred.

    CANCELLATION

    I know that life is unpredictable. With that in mind, I kindly ask for 24 hours if you need to cancel or change your appointment.

    > 24-hrs cancellation: Your $50 deposit will be refunded or applied to a future session.

    < 24-hrs cancellation: Your deposit will not be refunded and you’ll be expected to pay 50% of the session.

    < 4-hrs cancellation: You’ll be expected to pay 100% of the session cost.

    RESCHEDULE

    If you need to reschedule, your deposit will be applied to our future meeting. Rescheduling must be done at least 24 hours in advance.

    NO-SHOW

    No-shows result in being blocked from working with me ever again.